Reader matter:

I’ve been watching this guy for around 3 months now. We came across on the internet and just lately made a decision to not see other individuals. We actually take pleasure in both and starting to present our people.

He’s nonetheless effective about dating site we met from. The guy admitted to presenting casual talks still occasionally. I’m not a jealous or insecure individual, but it’s kind of struck me incorrect.

Should this bother me?

-Ayra (New York)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:


Should this bother you? Definitely! He is nevertheless playing industry online and interested in a bigger, better offer.

I think you ought to contact their bluff. Simply tell him his terms of exclusivity suggest nothing if they are however single using the internet. Suggest that you two transferred to fast and simply tell him you are pleased to go back on the web also, if he thinks remaining single is the best.

Oh, and one more thing, end having sexual intercourse with him.

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